So...I thought I'd take a gander at what the First Lady had to advise all of us to be doing for a happy and loving marriage (or other "relationship") and I think that she gives some great advice:
Laugh with your partner! That's it, Folks! :-D Well...there is, of course, more to it than just laughter (like the fact that she actually shares that The Prez is "very romantic." AWESOME! Spread it around, Mr. Prez, (and not like "someone else" a few terms, ago, in your capacity, before you did! Just BE A SHINING EXAMPLE w/your Missus, to your fellow countrymen!! :-) 'cuz the world needs more romance in it, fer SURE! And...he actually remembers dates like birthdays and anniversaries! Very BIG of him! EXCELLENT! :-D So...I guess I also "heard" "be romantic; and...remember special dates/days that are important to your 'Significant Other.'
She continues that her husband "would do right by giving her jewelry"! LOL! Well...if you're "rollin' in it" (money, that is, and NOT the other! ;-) that is GREAT but also, "some of us" are quite picky about what we wear...IF we "have to" wear jewelry, but...some of you ladies, out there, I'm sure, would just "eat that approach right up!" So...if your 'Significant Other' has spent the time to discover which you would prefer, and the "element of surprise" being the "key to your heart," I think that is AWESOME and say: "GO FOR IT, GUYS!" :-) So...sometimes this has to be spelled out and re-iterated really clearly so: the last thing that I "heard" in this article is "get her jewelry...IF that is her "thing". :-D
Oh and...don't forget to finish the evening off with a romantic dinner for two either "out" or "in;" whichever you both prefer. There are advantages to the latter, guys; ALL your efforts would probably pay off around this time...IF you've known each other for awhile! (I don't want dudes to ASSume that this is a "given" on a blind date! lol! And, alternately, DON'T expect much, the first time, if you haven't been making much of an effort over the years, dudes! Truthfully, I think that most women would prefer some sort of "emotional investment" on your part before you try "digging for treasures." OK? Just work on it and...soon, "the key" WILL be YOURS, again! Or not! Or...I could be totally wrong and you might get "the brass ring" the first try! Just sayin'! Don't want to discourage you! :-D
But, also...IF you are eating in, please decide, beforehand, if one of you (or both! That can always be fun! Dinner might just be awhile longer...especially if there are several, um, "courses" in between the appetizer and the main course! :0) :-) are cooking as women, often, are TIRED of doing this, especially if they do this day in and day out; so...getting both of your favorite take-out is nice, as well. Needs to be a "team" decision, at any rate! ;-)
Enjoy your "lovely" day, everyone! :-)
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